I am being sucked up by children things that I think I've done I have not.What do you do to relieve yourself when stretched thin ?  I need some type of resolution where is the space for your self when your newly separated. 3 years down the drain. I am mentally distraught beyond belief, with three children constantly asking where's he at? Now I have to literally do everything by myself. i am not juggling it well so far please help me.